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04/25/2010 | Resisting any unwanted character within us
increases the conflict we feel over it, but it also speeds up any
subsequent negative reactions we have to its dark presence. In other words, the more we don’t want to feel something the more accelerated becomes our suffering over it! |
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04/23/2010 | All violence towards others,
or any attack upon oneself, is nothing more than one’s own unconscious imperfection trying, in vain, to keep itself out of sight. |
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04/21/2010 | Resistance is the favorite
food of the enemy of freedom. |
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04/18/2010 | Love doesn’t resist or resent
anything;it knows and sees the secret unity in all it beholds. Light doesn’t fear shadows; it gently transforms them into open space. |
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04/16/2010 | True kindness — the flowering
of patience, compassion, and the quiet, but unshakable strength for which we all aspire — is only found growing along that uphill path called “humility.” |
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04/14/2010 | When all is well with us, we
openourselves up to the words of the wise, welcoming their counsel; but whenever some painful trial comes knocking at our door — bringing with it the possibility of real-time wisdom that nothing else can provide — we slam shut the door of our heart and mind, wanting no words with it! |
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04/11/2010 | If you listen carefully, quietly,you’ll hear the voiceof the moment tell you that all is
well and always will be. |
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04/09/2010 | Wise persistence always pays the
one who serves it at least once, but usually twice. The first payoff — and the most valuable — is the realization that “walls” are immaterial apart from the resistance that lends them their temporary substance. The second payment comes on the other side of the “wall”… where achievement proves the value of sustained effort. |
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04/07/2010 | Any thought that “promises”
to rescue you, or to otherwise deliver you to some new delight deceives you twice. First, that it has the power to lift you above what’s dragging you down; and secondly, more significantly, that there is a “you” that needs being saved from some dire straight, or that can be actually be enlarged by changing circumstance. |
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04/04/2010 | Rebirth is a return; it is the Divine
answer to acall seeded into creation for the soul to return home to its uncreated Source. |
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04/02/2010 | Allowing the rushed state of another
person to pushyou into an anxious state of mind… is like letting thehorse you’re about to ride convince you to wear the saddle! |
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03/31/2010 | Whatever justifies the
unconscious sufferinginherent in anger, blame, or bitterness is, itself, a part of – in league with – these same negative states. And that’s what we have to see if we ever want to be free of whatever it is (within us) that has “good reasons” for tearing itself apart. |
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03/28/2010 | Part 1:If putting yourself first
had any real power to grant you true liberty – a way to make you content, then – for all you’ve given to yourself – shouldn’t you be happy and free by now? Part 2: Asking God to help you — without first doing the interior work of seeing and admitting the truth of yourself to yourself — is like sending someone else to church or temple for you to pray for your transfiguration. |
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03/26/2010 | Waiting on others to approve a
change you know you must make in your own life — an action you must take that will likely lessen your dependency upon them, and perhaps drive them to make changes in their habitual choices — is like hoping that a snowman looks forward to a spring thaw. |
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03/24/2010 | There is only one reason why
any of us ever do wrong to another, blame someone else for our sorrow,forget to be thankful for what we have, or go through our entire day without remembering our God…and that’s because we have forgotten – once again — our own interior wretchedness. |
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03/21/2010 | Longing to be whole – to be
one withwhat is holy – is like standing in the surf as it washes the shoreline and wishing that you could be nearer to the ocean. |
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03/19/2010 | Running from yourself is the | |
03/17/2010 | Part 1:All forms of momentum are
mindless,but never more so than when a mind– blinded by desire – runs after what it wants without any awareness of its action. Part 2: Desire is in bondage to itself, but the Spirit of man is indomitable! Awaken the sleeping soul to its unseen captivity, and nothing in the world can stop its revolt and ultimate liberation. |
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03/14/2010 | Part 1:It is an unthinkable spiritual
paradox thatbefore one can ever hope to be dressed forthe marriage divine, one must first see how unsuited he or she is to know such a Love. Part 2: Desires serve the awakening one, while one who sleeps…serves desire. |
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03/12/2010 | Coming to any negative conclusion
is like getting caught in a sudden rainstorm… and then jumping into a river to keep your shoes from getting wet. |
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03/10/2010 | There are times when there’s more
to be gained from losing a fight, than there is in winning it. Show me someone who only enters into battles he’s sure can be won, and I will show you that person who has all but forsaken the possibility of ever knowing his own soul. |
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03/07/2010 | The suffering inherent in negative
statesis the dark creation of a level of self thatbelieves its conflict with life can be reconciled through resistance. |
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03/05/2010 | Stormy thoughts and feelings can no
moreovercome your quiet awareness of themthan do raindrops have the power to wash away the sky through which they pour. |
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03/03/2010 | It is sheer fantasy to think that
your “tomorrow” can be any different – better or brighter thantoday – as long as all you do is fantasize about it. Real self-change requires the conscious sacrifice of the self whose hopes lie in things dreamed. |
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02/28/2010 | Until we learn to make peace with our
own sense of emptiness, we will never know the true nature of fulfillment. |
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02/26/2010 | With regards to suffering, our pain
hurts alittle less whenever we can remember this strange (but true) spiritual fact: many of God’s greatest gifts seem, at first, unbearable to receive. |
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02/24/2010 | Being fully present to oneself is freedom
from the tyranny of the past and fearof the future. |
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02/21/2010 | It is a fool and his pride that relishesin
any perfection that “proves” its value by punishing him for his imperfections. |
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02/19/2010 | The only truly worthwhile “accomplishment” –
– the one action that stands the test ofpassing time — is the interior work we do that allows God to accomplish His task in our soul. |
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02/18/2010 | The vast majority of people miss out
onmost of their lives in their ceaseless rushnot to miss out on what they’ve imagined l ife has to offer…once they become who they’ve imagined they should be. |
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02/14/2010 | Here’s the real spiritual reason you
should doonly one thing at a time – whether putting on a pair of socks, picking up a pencil, or pouring yourself a cup of tea: The only way it’s possible to do more than one thing at a time is to have surrendered your attention to a divided nature that believes just getting things done is the same as doing things well. |
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02/12/2010 | The seeds of what will be are planted
in the here and now, a fact of life that guaranteesone thing: unless we do the inner work to be aware of ourselves in the present moment… yesterday will be our tomorrow. |
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02/10/2010 | Blame is the dark effect of denial,
of refusing torecognize that when it comes to anyone oranything that sets you off…seer and the seen are one and the same. |
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02/07/2010 | Arrogance, fear, in fact all dark
negativestates only rule and stain our lives as they do because of how distanced we’ve become from the immense and divine mystery of our own True Nature. |
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02/05/2010 | Any form of measuring yourself by
the unkind action of another towards you is like looking into a badly fractured mirror… and then blaming yourself for the shattered image you see therein. |
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02/03/2010 | Preparation, hard work, is part of perfecting
whatever you’ve imagined you want to attain in this world. But there is a world beyond anything we can imagine; (it is) an intelligent presence, a “place” of powers and principles whose self-obliterating touch can no more be prepared for than can a mountain pine prepare for a lighting bolt. ..or a newly opened spring flower its first taste of the morning sun. |
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01/31/2010 | The presence of the Master is useless | |
01/29/2010 | Excellence, wherever… and within
whomever you may find it, is always a result of effort… never by accident. |
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01/27/2010 | All negative emotions, but especially
anger, are the offspring of one dark state…a frustrated desire that would rather set fire to the object, person, or condition seen as being at fault, than turn around and see itself for what it is in reality: the unseen source of its own suffering. |
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01/24/2010 | It’s widely believed that psychological
pain is a natural response to encountering anunwanted moment, but the true – and secret – source of this pain is an unseen conflict inherent in our present level of consciousness itself; the truth is that the “self” that suffers this pain is revealed by unwanted conditions – not created by them. |
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01/22/2010 | Real abundance has very
little to do with being able to give ourselves whateverwe want, but rather with being free of the part of us that’s forever wanting something better and new in order to feel new and better about itself. |
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01/20/2010 | The truth of our oneness with life only
starts to become real for us as we awaken to see that in hurting others; we have also hurt ourselves and–that whenever we hurt ourselves–others suffer. |
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01/17/2010 | Perhaps the most deceptive of all th
e false gods is the one who condemnsyou for being you. |
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01/15/2010 | Discover the unseen relationship
between always being in a rush… and how important it makes you feel to always be going somewhere in a hurry… and you’ve made first contact with the power you need to slow down and take command of your own life. |
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01/13/2010 | The true spiritual battle isn’t with life,
but in our work to stay in the midst of it when other parts of us want to run away. |
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01/10/2010 | The comparative mind can’t understand
that perfection is not in time, but rather is the action of what is Timeless upon time and all of its creations. |
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01/08/2010 | There is only one thing that you don’
thave to imagine or struggle to keep alive — and that is what you authentically love. |
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01/06/2010 | The key to the kingdom of heavenis
never farther away from us thanwhat each present moment reveals to us; for in truth “purity of heart” is inseparable from our willingness to see that things are the way they are because of the way we are. |
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01/03/2010 | A stone set into motion, rolling down a hill,
goes only where gravity and accident allow. The same law holds true for any sense of “self” set off by a mechanical reaction; momentum carries it along until it crashes into someone or something that it then blames for being in the way. |
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01/01/2010 | Any mental or emotional crisis in our life
is evidence of an “account past due.” Understood properly, such pain reveals where we are holding on to parts of ourselves that cost us more to maintain than they are worth. |
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12/30/2009 | Feeling sorry for yourself is not an action…
anymore than reliving some old regret has the power to change your present nature. Struggle with yourself; reaching takes disturbing the one who rests; yet, as surely as a seedling breaks out of her earthly tomb, so will you realize the world above you…once you commit to do the interior work needed to attain it. |
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12/27/2009 | In the grand scheme of things,everything
that God gives you– for its darkness or light, pleasure or pain – is so that comes the day when, within you, is awakened the wisdom and will to give it all back to Him. |
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12/25/2009 | In this High Holiday Season, so
fullof self-created gratification, we shouldnever forget that hidden in the shadow of all passing pleasures dwells their unseen opposite, some form of sorrow that — sooner or later — must visit the unwary soul. Yet… for our striving to remember this inescapable fact of life, born in us is this bright new understanding: lasting joy is found only in the realization of our True Self. |
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12/23/2009 | Yours is the power to put the fear of
the future behind you, but only as you are willing to see that unless you do the interior work to awaken now…your past awaits you just ahead. |
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12/20/2009 | Our greatest power – as it turns out —
isn’t the ability to imaginea limitless life, but rather to become aware of the fact that all dreams are part of the finite world. |
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12/18/2009 | Real life can no more act to pull us down
than does the rising sun burden the spring |
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12/16/2009 | To be consciously kind has its cost,
and the principle coin with which this payment is made is…the sacrifice of self. |
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12/13/2009 | It’s impossible to be concerned
with how others see you…and be true to yourself at the same time. |
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12/11/2009 | No one is less interesting than someonewho
thinks nothing could be more fascinating than telling you all about himself. |
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12/09/2009 | Whenever you try to protect yourself
from any form of fear, it is only fear that you protect. Only fear can make you into what you don’t want to be. |